So if some of you are unaware we are a big gaggle of mormon chicks fighting our way through the horrendous world of the single's ward. I in particular have been fighting the good fight for almost 10 years now and I can happily say it's gotten easier. Not because it sucks less but because i guess i've changed my expectations. It's these expectations that have gotten me into trouble and heartbreak and just when i've tweaked my life plan to where I think heavenly father will say "yes great job this is the plan i have for you" he says instead "oh never mind you're wrong again." In the LDS church we believe that there is a great plan of happiness, that we are all spirit children that came from a pre-mortal existence and there is a post mortal existence as well where we will have the opportunity to spend eternity with God and our families. This is why Mormon girls may get their panties in a bunch (garments in tangle) because we aren't just looking for a hookup or even death do us part. We are looking for a guy who is grade A celestial kingdom material, which, in an ever darkening and sinful world is starting to get hard to find. Not saying I'm perfect i've made mistakes and I am well aware that all of my options have made them as well. The main thing I find the most attractive in a guy is his drive to be a better person, and when that's not there, sorry it ain't happenin' honey. The main difficulty I have besides my lack of prospective suitors is how picky God is being on my behalf. I have been told multiple times when in a situation of mutual "like" or more that they prayed about it and it's not the right thing to do. So my question is, Heavenly Father WHY WON'T YOU LET BOYS DATE ME!?
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